Porn Review: Tobi & Maya

This scene starring Tobi Hill-Meyer and Maya Mayhem starts out cute and stilted. Maya arrives at Tobi’s hotel room (?), Tobi declares, “I made tea!” and Maya coos, “What a lovely teapot.” It’s kind of awkward, but it aptly captures those slightly uncomfortable moments when you know you’re going to have sex with someone, you just don’t know how to segue into it. Tobi knows how to make that segue, though: after only a couple sips of tea, she says, “Well, you know how hospitality goes. I have to serve you something before I fuck you.” And then they giggle and get down to business.

I bought this clip because I’d never seen porn starring trans women before. I’m very much in love with Buck Angel’s film Sexing the Transman XXX, and I actually dated a trans guy at one point, so I consider myself relatively familiar with transmasculine sexuality – but transfeminine? Not so much.

I’m familiar with Tobi Hill-Meyer because of this video in which she discusses her experiences as a butch trans woman, and the parallels between the oppressive forces of transmisogyny and femmephobia (as a queer femme gal, I heartily approve this message). When I saw she stars in porn as well, I wanted to see some of it right away, because… what’s sexier than seeing someone smart and articulate have sex? Nothing.

Tobi and Maya are apparently lovers in real life. I don’t feel that this necessarily translates to them having more “chemistry” than other porn actors, since a good porn performer knows how to appear to have chemistry with just about anyone – but it is hot to see that these two women clearly already know how to push each other’s buttons. It’s the kind of intuitiveness that can’t really be faked by a pre-shoot briefing on likes and dislikes, as far as I can tell. I think I need to see more porn that features real partners getting it on.

The order of events in this clip doesn’t follow the traditional porn formula – but of course, this is QueerPorn.TV, so that’s to be expected. Tobi starts out by fucking Maya with a bright purple Leo that looks cute against her hot pink panties. This is maybe the hottest cowgirl fuck I’ve seen in porn – both women experience real pleasure and there’s a good mix of wide shots and close-ups. Maya’s clit bounces around jovially. It’s a good time.

Tobi talks dirty from time to time, and my favorite is when she’s fucking Maya (with a dildo or a fist) and repeats some variation of, “Mmhmm. That’s right.” It’s just a little bit domme and controlling and so sexy.

I was glad I did a bit of research on Tobi before watching this, because it was cool to have read about certain techniques and then see them come into play. In this video, she explains the significance of strap-on sex to trans dykes, and in this blog post, she describes an oral sex technique that lessens her dysphoria – both of which are demonstrated in the QueerPorn clip.

In this video, you will see anal sex, anal fisting, a “titgasm,” hair-pulling, a “reach-around,” and some very enthusiastic cunnilingus, among other things. It’s a diverse sexual buffet and it serves as a great reminder that sex doesn’t have to be limited or linear.

My only real complaint about this clip is that it’s way too short. I mean, they get a lot of shit done in 16 minutes, but for $14, I expect more.

This clip is a good one if you want to learn a little about transfeminine sexuality (I honestly mostly bought it because I was curious), but it’s also really, really hot. It’s hard to know who to recommend it to, since I feel it could appeal to a wide range of people, but if you know you’re into lesbian sex, butches, or trans women in particular, you should snap it up because you’ll almost certainly get off on it.