…you use the words “cunnilingus” and “fellatio” all the time in regular conversation.
…you’re taken aback by any woman who’s upset she can’t climax from intercourse alone, and throw statistics at her.
…you spend a disproportionate amount of time idly surfing Lelo, Njoy, Liberator, and Jimmyjane’s websites.
…you go to a sex shop with a friend and spend the entire time doing mini-reviews of every toy you see, regardless of whether or not you yourself have used it.
…your friends know to ask you if they have a sexual problem or need a toy recommendation.
…you own both The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio and The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, have read both thoroughly, and lend them out as needed.
…you quote Violet Blue, Kidder Kaper, Dan Savage, and Tristan Taormino in everyday life.
…you periodically make a huge event out of putting your sex toys in boiling water to sterilize them.
…you react in utter horror to jelly toys.
…you explain to your partner, during sex, the benefits and drawbacks of the position you’re in, and suggest possible alternatives and alterations.
…you have a favorite kind of condom, and you order it in bulk online.
…you’ve repurposed your Lelo boxes into storage for lube and butt plugs.
…the slightest hesitance on your partner’s part causes you to ask them a series of questions to make sure you’re respecting their boundaries.
…you’ve done MojoUpgrade at least 5 times.
…you’ve taken one of your parents to a sex shop before, at their request.
…you know the layout of your local sex boutique so well that you’re thrown off when they change it at all.
…you know the nutritional information and caloric content of semen, menstrual blood, female ejaculatory fluid, and various kinds of flavored lube.
…you own several thick, dark, large towels.
…your first response to any plea for sexual advice is “Ask your partner what they think!”
…you know the efficacy rates of all the birth control methods off the top of your head.
…your masturbation sessions are more like lab experiments.