January 18, 2024
My old high school was putting on an Alice in Wonderland adaptation, so I decided to dress in Alice-y colors to go see it. Call it “Queen of Hearts chic”!
The show was great! My former improv teacher, Mr. Wei, was making his directorial debut, so I was really glad I got to see it. Alice is such a fun coming-of-age story; I studied it extensively in some classes I took at university about children’s literature, so it’s always really interesting to see adaptations of it. (I even considered getting an Alice tattoo at one point… Might still come to pass one day, who knows!)
What I’m wearing:
- Navy cropped tank top (actually a longline bralette, but shhh, I’m wearing it as a shirt) – Aerie
- Blue oversize cardigan – a gift from my mom a few years ago, I think?
- Red skinny pants – Old Navy
- Red heart-shaped bag – Kate Spade
- Black leather Frye harness boots
March 30, 2024
I didn’t actually leave the house in this, but hey, loungewear outfits are valid too (especially when you have a chronic illness and there’s a pandemic happening outside!!).
Earlier in the day, I had filmed a song video, after which I kept my makeup on but changed into this comfier ensemble for a relaxing night at home.
What I’m wearing:
- Black ribbed cropped tank top – Forever 21
- Black cashmere hoodie – a very sweet Christmas gift from my spouse’s parents (soooo cozy!!)
- Purple eggplant-print lounge shorts – MeUndies
- Purple leather heart earrings – Unicorn Collaborators
- Plain grey socks
May 16, 2024
I wore this out to get my hair done (hence the hat covering the scraggly mess, pre-appointment). My hair’s super short these days, probably the shortest it’s been since I was a toddler, and I love how queer-femme it makes me feel, but it sure does take a lot more upkeep than when it was long!
I’ve been obsessed with romance novels lately, as I start to attempt writing my first one (!!), so during this appointment I was switching back and forth between re-reading my two faves at the moment, Romantic Comedy and The Pairing. Would strongly recommend, especially if you like witty flirting.
What I’m wearing:
- “101 Kinky Things” custom snapback hat – Printful
- Yellow muscle tank – Amazon Essentials
- Black high-waisted jeans – Madewell
- Yellow peeptoe clogs – Lotta from Stockholm
- Purple leather Coach crossbody bag
May 20, 2024
Here’s what I wore to speak on a panel at the Museum of Sex about my podcast miniseries, Making Magic. (Wow, that’s a sentence that 15-year-old me would not believe if you went back and told her about it!) It was definitely a career highlight. I loved sharing the stage with such smart people, and getting to meet so many folks who came out to celebrate Magic Wand Day with us. And of course, my lovely spouse was at my side, supportive as ever.
Naturally, I’d put together a Magic Wand-themed outfit for the occasion…
What I’m wearing:
- Blue tennis dress – Iffei (I mainly bought this because it’s cute and blue, but it also helped a lot that it’s moisture-wicking, because I get sweaty under stage lights!!)
- Magic Wand earrings – FUELifestyle
- Blue Tiffany’s collar
- Black leather Frye harness boots
- Pale blue Coach Mercer satchel (visible on the floor behind me in the lower-left corner)
- Big-ass false lashes, ’cause why not?!
May 25, 2024
I wore this out to have dinner at Harding’s, a fave New York spot, with my spouse. We’d had a pretty chill day before that, if I recall correctly. It takes me DAYS, if not WEEKS, to fully recover after a big event like the Magic Wand one, above – my fibro-ridden body and brain take time to get back to baseline. So it’s nice to have a partner who’s fine with me being low-energy a lot of the time, but who will nonetheless encourage me to go out, have fun, and eat nourishing food when possible.
What I’m wearing:
- Pink muscle tank – Amazon Essentials
- Blue tennis skirt – Zhanchtong (bought because it’s the exact same color as the blue accents on the Magic Wand)
- White and blue custom clutch with my name on it – made by Julie Mollo (who is awesomely talented and very sweet!) and sent to me last year as a holiday gift from the Magic Wand team – it is so glittery IRL and was the bag I carried daily for like 90% of this latest New York trip
- Black leather Frye harness boots
June 6, 2024
Same skirt, different day! This was the day when the Betty Dodson episode of Making Magic launched, so I wore this outfit in celebration of Betty, who was a legendary masturbation coach, sex educator, fine artist, and feminist icon.
I wore this out to run some errands, including going to the Hermès store, which I’m pretty sure I’d never been into in my life. My spouse had bought me an Hermès strap for my Apple Watch a few months back, and part of it broke recently, so I went in to get it repaired, but Hermès themselves refused to repair it, which I thought was pretty funny for how expensive their stuff is. I walked over to my local cobbler and they fixed it for $10.
What I’m wearing:
- “Run the Fuck” T-shirt – Museum of Sex gift shop (the text refers to Betty’s philosophy that women should be more assertive during sex, in order to get our needs met)
- Blue tennis skirt – Zhanchtong
- Black leather Frye harness boots
Feel free to jump into the comments to let me know which of these outfits you liked best, and/or what you’ve been wearing and loving lately! (And P.S.: for more posts like this, check out the outfit tag.)