Sometimes, people who don’t have boobs will ask me, “What’s it like to have boobs?” and I never quite know how to answer, because I barely think about mine – unless someone is doing something to ’em. Partners often turn me on by stimulating my tits and nipples in various ways, but it rarely occurs to me to touch my own breasts in a sexual manner, even though they’re attached to my body 24/7.
So, to remind my readers as well as myself, here’s a handy-dandy list of kinky things you can do to someone’s tits – someone else’s, or even perhaps your own!
1. Put nipple clamps on ’em
Nipple clamps are an easy way to infuse some sadomasochism into anything else you may be doing. They’re a delightfully “set-it-and-forget-it” type of toy. I’ve been known to wear my favorite clamps while giving or receiving oral sex, enduring a spanking, or even just doing household tasks. It sure livens things up!
2. Nibble on ’em
If you prefer to administer pain directly, rather than having a toy do it for you, you may want to use your teeth on a partner’s breasts or nipples. Start gently, because pain tolerance in this area can differ massively from person to person and even from day to day (some people, myself included, experience breast soreness before/during their period that might make this a no-go for a while).
3. Slap ’em
I used to request this from partners fairly often when my boobs were bigger (nowadays they’re smaller and so this feels more like having my ribs slapped, which I’m not as much a fan of)! Experiment to find optimal slap placement – I usually liked to have the outer side of each breast slapped, rather than the nipples.
4. Use ice on ’em
This type of temperature play isn’t necessarily painful, per se, but can be quite alarming and overwhelming in a way that feels sadomasochistic nonetheless. Makes a particularly great tease during summer months!
5. Drip hot wax on ’em
If ice-cold nips aren’t quite your jam, maybe molten-hot ones would be! Pick up a plain, undyed, unscented candle made of soy or paraffin wax (often sold at sex/kink shops) and experiment with dripping the lit candle’s wax from various heights; the higher you hold the candle, the more time the wax will have to cool down before hitting skin, so you can modulate the intensity that way.
6. Do electrostimulation on ’em
If you have a Neon Wand or similar, you can zap someone’s breasts. I often compare electrostim to the sensation of getting tattooed; it’s a sharp, stingy, localized pain that can make me spacey real fast.
7. Objectify someone for ’em
Breasts are deeply equated in our culture with femininity, sex appeal, and indecency – and while that’s not always a good thing (Free the Nipple, anyone?), in kink we can play with these tropes in ways that turn us on. Go as mild or as wild as you want, as long as it’s consensual – you could copiously compliment someone’s boobs, “make” them wear a push-up bra out to dinner, or even list them on Boobpedia if they’re into that.
8. Tie ’em up
There are many rope bondage ties that stimulate or highlight breasts in various ways; google “rope chest harness” to find ideas. Depending on the type of rope you use and how you use it, tying someone’s chest could be anywhere from thrillingly painful to calmingly massage-like. Snap a few pics of the finished tie if you want to document it for posterity!
9. Eat/drink off ’em
While food play in the genital region is inadvisable because of sexual health concerns (yeast infections, etc.), a chest has no such limitations. You can drizzle whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or a boozy cocktail all over someone’s tits – ideally in a bathtub/shower or with a waterproof sheet laid down beforehand, to contain any mess – and then lick it off, or make them try to lick it off.
10. Get hypnotized by ’em
In the mesmerizing world of hypnokink, some people induce trance with spiral gifs, pendulums, or pocketwatches – but there’s no reason you can’t use boobs to do the same thing! I’ve occasionally swung my tits back and forth in a hypnotic manner to lull my hypnokinky partner into trance, or even just had her stare at a photo of them until her brain gets all fuzzy. Ah, breasts – what can’t they do?!
Dear readers, have you tried any of these kinky things, as a giver, receiver, or both? Which one from the list is your fave?
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