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Review Uberrime Dulce dildo

Kate Sloan

Few things can boost my mood like colorful dildos – and that’s exactly what arrived for me, one rainy day back in August, when I’d been moping around the apartment about… well, I actually don’t remember what was bumming me out, because those thoughts were banished from my head by the arrival of a box from Uberrime, containing no fewer than four colorful dildos (plus five miniature ones!).

Today I want to talk to you about the Dulce dildo. It stood out from the pack immediately, even amongst such a smorgasbord, because of its G-spot curve. It made me think of a friend of mine who told me, back in our mid-twenties, that she’d never had a G-spot orgasm before meeting her then-boyfriend, but was suddenly able to do so – because his dick had a remarkable upward curve that hit the spot just right.

The Dolce, much like that man’s legendary dick, has a traditional penis-esque shape but is also deeply curved, so you get the best of both worlds: a familiarly phallic form, complete with bulbous head and pronounced coronal ridge, but with a curve rarely seen on human cocks.

As with much of Uberrime’s catalogue, you can customize the Dulce according to your needs. The one sent to me by the brand has a gorgeous ombré of greenish-yellow and rich turquoise; I’m obsessed with this colorway! This is the the ‘large’ size, which has an insertable length of 7 inches, and a diameter of 1.83 inches at its widest point. (They also make a small version which is 6″ by 1.55″.) I’m not sure of the shore, i.e. the firmness of this particular silicone formation, but if I had to guess, I’d say it’s probably the 12a/’medium’ shore.

I always appreciate a dildo that can hit my G-spot and my A-spot – ideally both at once, but it’s even impressive to be able to hit both spots at all! – and the Dulce definitely qualifies. It’s best at G-spot stimulation, which makes sense, as it’s designed to hit G-spots and prostates – but once I’m properly turned on, I can push it a couple inches deeper and its squishy tip will nudge my A-spot on each thrust, while the subtle veiny-ish texture on its shaft massages my G-spot. It can’t target my A-spot quite as effectively as something slim, like the Standard Glass S-Curve, because my cervix gets in the way, but it still feels good in that general area.

I love the size and firmness of this dildo for times when I feel like getting absolutely railed. It feels like it fills me up completely, and it gives my cunt muscles something pleasantly squishy to squeeze around. The silicone has a glossy finish which slides easily when well-lubed (water-based only, please!), such that I can fuck myself hard and fast with this toy even when I’m having a bad hand pain day. It helps massively that the Dulce’s base is chunky enough for me to always keep a good grip on it – and I appreciate that the text on the toy’s base can be used as a visual indicator to keep the curve facing upward.

The Dulce’s two most striking features are its curve and its coronal ridge, and both are fantastic. Like, eyes-rolling-back-in-my-head fantastic. I’ve noticed that when I’m using the Dulce, I can usually keep my clitoral vibrator on a lower speed than I’d otherwise need to, because the dildo is so stimulating. When I thrust with it quickly and rhythmically, I can bring myself to delicious blended orgasms that feel centered in my G-spot, A-spot, or both. Hopefully sometime one of my partners will strap this on and fuck me with it, because I think they’d enjoy seeing my intense reactions! (And speaking of strap-ons, this dildo would look marvelous in my raspberry-pink leather harness!)

Overall, the Dulce is pretty close to being my ideal realistic dildo. The only thing I don’t like about this toy is that it’s too big to fit comfortably in my mouth for a dildo BJ – but I forget about that entirely once it’s inside me, knocking the thoughts out of my head each time it hits one of my spots. Gosh, isn’t it wonderful when a dildo feels as good as it looks?

 

This review was NOT sponsored; Uberrime just sent me this toy and I loved it. Thank you, Uberrime!

Gorgeous Dildos at (Temporarily) Discounted Prices!

Kate Sloan
The Uberrime Night King (pink/red), Amante (blue), and Senos (green)

The other night, in the middle of sex, my boyfriend and I opened one of the storage drawers under my bed and started looking for a dildo he could fuck me with. He picked up the Uberrime Senos and said, “Is this the one I fucked you with last time?”

I shook my head and pointed at the Uberrime Amante, saying, “No, that was this one.”

Eventually we settled on the Uberrime Night King, a long-time favorite of mine – and I subsequently came all over it so hard that I burst into cathartic tears. Damn, that’s a good dildo! (Helps that a cute person with strong arms was wielding it, of course…!)

I’m telling you this story because it perfectly illustrates how much I adore the sex toy company Uberrime. This weekend only, they’re having a sale where everything is 15% off, including both custom and ready-made toys. Just use the code SUMMER15 and you’re good to go!

But of course, I’m not expecting you to fend for yourself, throwing dildos into your cart indiscriminately (although you could…) – here are my current top picks from the extensive Uberrime catalogue!

I mentioned the Night King already (it’s the one my boyfriend recently railed me with…) but it bears repeating: this is a bloody excellent dildo. I actually own two of them, one in blue and grey and one in a stunning “lovecore”-inspired red and pink colorway. It’s one of the best toys I’ve ever found for A-spot stimulation, due to its unusually generous length (8″ insertable), upward curve, and slightly tapered tip. But it doesn’t just pleasure my A-spot – the ripply texture along its shaft massages my vaginal walls, and its stark coronal ridge feels great on my G-spot when thrusted more shallowly.

There are many Uberrime toys which excel in a strap-on harness, but the Night King is the one I’ve been fucked with the most, by far. Its formidable length allows partners to hit my A-spot with it, regardless of what position we’re in or what kind of harness they have on, while leaving enough space between our bodies for me to use a clitoral vibe so I can get off. It’s pretty ideal; I’m kind of obsessed with it!

Image via Uberrime

Speaking of A-spot toys, I’m drooling just looking at the Aptus, a dildo designed expressly for that purpose. I’ve always gotten the sense from Uberrime that they take user feedback into account constantly, and this feels like the kind of dildo one could only create if one either liked A-spot stimulation oneself, or had listened carefully to the commentary of people who do. It’s got the exact kind of curve and tapering that a great A-spot toy requires, and just like the Night King above, it boasts 8 inches of insertable length, so it’ll be able to reach that spot regardless of where you are in your arousal cycle and/or menstrual cycle. Damn… Might’ve talked myself into buying one 😂

Image via Uberrime

I was pleasantly surprised by the Fingo clit grinder, which Uberrime sent me a while back. I don’t really consider my clit large enough to be able to penetrate anything, even when it’s hard, but I do enjoy a BJ-esque suction technique when receiving oral, so I’d wondered if I might like a toy that surrounds my clit similarly to how a mouth can. Once I got myself turned on and lubed up the Fingo, I enjoyed ‘fucking’ in and out of it with my clit. I don’t think I could get off that way, but it was a fun, pleasurable tease! I’d be curious to know what a transmasculine person would think of this one – I imagine it’d be too small for some T-dicks, but might work really well for others.

Image via Uberrime

The Astra looks like the perfect strap-on-compatible dildo with which to fuck someone who likes G-spot or prostate stimulation. That elongated, flat head would massage either of those spots beautifully, especially if you choose one of the firmer silicone formulations Uberrime offers. Many strap-on sex connoisseurs will love the wide variety of color options available, too – your strap-on setup is part of your sexual self-expression, so it should be something you feel sexy in, whether you go with bright red, plain black, a realistic skin tone, or a loud color combo that makes your heart sing.

Image via Uberrime

Speaking of interesting color options, I love that Uberrime makes packers in various eclectic colors, not just skin tones. If your gender feels more expansive than the typical binary allows for, you might well want a technicolor dick – like maybe the Uberrime Esse packer in a bold red-yellow swirl, or a unicorny candy-floss gradient. Cute!

Image via Uberrime

I’ve enjoyed the Suavis vaginal plug, but am currently curious about this one, the Sensi. It looks like it would press against my G-spot effortlessly once inserted, which is exactly what I’m craving when I reach for a vaginal plug (my go-to is the Hole Punch Fluke, FYI!). This type of toy pairs excellently with oral sex; it’s a lot easier for me to get off from someone going down on me when my G-spot is being automatically massaged every time my internal muscles clench!

Well, there you have it – my top picks from Uberrime. Don’t forget to use the code SUMMER15 to get 15% off your order, this weekend only! And why not pick a weird color you wouldn’t normally get? Life’s too short for boring dildos, if you ask me!

The Best Sex Toys of 2024

Kate Sloan

I’ve been lucky enough in my career to write sex toy listicles for all sorts of big publications. I love being able to spread sex toy awareness to the masses, but ultimately, this website is still my favorite place to write about these products – because this website is the only one where I can give you the full, detailed, unvarnished lowdown on why I like (or dislike) any given toy. I love having that kind of freedom!

With that in mind, I want to tell you about the toys I used and enjoyed the most in 2024…

Old faithfuls

Before I tell you about my 8 favorite new-to-me sex toys of the year, I gotta shout out the nightstand workhorses that’ve stuck around for a while:

 

My 8 favorite new toys of the year

Yep – I’m gonna do a “top 8,” MySpace-style!

Not all of these were released this year, but they all arrived in my collection sometime in 2024. I’ll start at the bottom and work my way up…

8. Mr Hankey’s Perfect Penis

Not much to say about this one, except that it’s a huge, beautiful silicone dick that I reach for when I want to feel well and truly fucked. And also it works better as an iPhone stand than many actual iPhone stands.

 

7. Uberrime Suavis plug

There are two vaginal plugs that I love: this one, and the Hole Punch Fluke, which has long been my go-to when I want some passive G-spot stimulation while receiving oral sex. The problem with the Fluke, however, is that I can’t wear it for longer than about an hour before my vag starts to get a little sore from the firmness of the silicone.

That’s where the Uberrime Suavis comes in – it’s softer, squishier, and more comfortable for longer wear (I think I’ve comfortably left it in for up to 3 hours before). The trade-off is that it doesn’t feel as good for me during orgasm as the Fluke does, because I prefer a firmer silicone at that moment – plus, sometimes my vag swallows the whole Suavis, base and all, which can make it a little tricky to retrieve. In any case, though, I love having two different vaginal plugs for the two different ways I like to use ’em!

6. Magic Wand Micro

They made a miniature version of the Magic Wand. Of course I love it!

The teeny-tiny Micro might disappoint some Wand diehards, because naturally it doesn’t quite stack up to its bigger siblings in terms of power – but it’s respectably rumbly and strong for its petite size, it’s portable as hell, and (perhaps most importantly of all) it’s really fucking cute.

 

5. Fun Factory Stronic G Forte

Hate to do this to ya, but this appears to be sold out everywhere… most likely because of Fun Factory’s recent acquisition by Satisfyer and it increasingly seems like they’re phasing out the brand. That would be a HUGE bummer for sex toy nerds around the world, because Fun Factory has long been one of the best and most ethical companies in the biz.

But it would feel weird to omit this toy from my list, even though you’ll have a hell of a time trying to sleuth one out at this point. Fun Factory’s Stronic line of “pulsators” thrust back and forth in small motions, and nowhere is this technology used more effectively than in the G Forte, which is made to target the G-spot with those quick little strokes. It’s girthier and stronger than the original Stronic G, and I’m sad that more people won’t get to experience it.

 

4. Solina Mega L dildo

At first glance, this toy may not look especially remarkable. It’s a straight, average-sized, realistic silicone dildo. So what?

Here’s what: This dildo is made of dual-density silicone, widely regarded as the best balance between realism and body-safety (since realistically squishy toys are usually made of porous and/or toxic materials) – and it only costs $40. It wasn’t so long ago that you’d have to shell out $100+ for a great dual-density silicone dildo – and the ones in that price range are still gorgeous and worthy of their price tags, but I love having an option I can recommend to folks who are on a tighter budget.

I’ve recently been sent a new addition to the Solina line, which I’ll write about sometime in 2025, and it’s lovely too. I’ve definitely got my eye on this brand!

3. Mr. Hankey’s Captain’s Hook

This toy’s deep curve and hefty girth make it one of the most breathtakingly G-spotty toys I’ve ever used. I find its realism sexy both visually and tactilely – that coronal ridge is simply marvelous.

I’d probably use it a lot more often if it wasn’t so heavy. But it speaks well of this toy that I’m willing to put up with the sore hands and arms occasionally in order to experience its pleasures.

 

2. Hot Octopuss Pulse Queen

One of my core skills as a sex toy reviewer is being very aware of my own “baseline,” in terms of sensitivity and sexual response, so that I will know when a toy causes significant deviations in those areas. And to that end, I noticed immediately that the Pulse Queen clitoral stimulator feels deeper and more stimulating than other vibes – and that the orgasms it gives me have a unique quality to them as well, a depth and sweetness that frequently makes me swear like a sailor while I’m coming.

The only reasons this toy isn’t in the #1 spot: It doesn’t stand up well at all to pressure (which makes it effectively useless in many PIV positions), and it has an annoyingly short battery life. But damn, nothing else feels quite like this toy, and when I’m craving it, absolutely nothing else will do.

 

1. We-Vibe Wand 2

The toys at the top of my list each year are usually fairly straightforward. They do one thing, and they do it well. Let that be a lesson to any sex toy company reps who may be reading this!

We-Vibe’s updated wand is a prime example. It’s “just” a wand – but oh, what a wand it is! It’s easily one of the rumbliest ones I’ve ever tried, and its speeds range from a low, gentle purr to a full-on jackhammer rumble. I’ve reached for it more times than I can count this year, because, simply put, it gets the fucking job done. It may not be the prettiest wand (or the most affordable), but it’s probably the wand that got me off the most times this year, and that’s a pretty big deal!

 

What were your favorite new toys this year?

 

As a reminder: when you buy toys through my links, I get a li’l monetary kickback (at no extra cost to you), which is a great way to “tip” me if you’ve appreciated my toy guidance this year 😘 Thanks, babes!

Lusting for Lovecore: Matching My Outfits to My Favorite Uberrime Dildo!

Kate Sloan

I love sex toys, I love fashion, and I especially love opportunities to blend those two interests together. So I’m sure you can understand why I was so excited when indie sex toy company Uberrime reached out recently to ask if I’d like to write a post about…

…how custom toys can feel like an expression/extension of self? You have such a consistent and memorable collection of go-to colors in both your business branding and personal fashion, I figured if anyone would want a toy to “match,” it might be you!

Needless to say, I replied with an enthusiastic YES!

I’m a massive fan of Uberrime’s Night King dildo (here’s my review from 2019 if you’d like to read it), because its length, shape, and coronal ridge make it an absolute powerhouse for A-spot stimulation. The brand sweetly offered me a brand-new, custom-made Night King, in the colors of my choice, to highlight the extreme customizability offered on Uberrime’s site. Color isn’t the only thing you get to customize, either: you can also select your preferred firmness for your new toy, and decide whether you want a port in the base for a bullet vibrator or a Vac-U-Lock device. Gotta love a bespoke dong!

Choosing dildo colors can be a challenge for an indecisive femme comme moi, but in this case, I knew exactly what I wanted: red and pink. In other words, I wanted a “lovecore” Night King. I love these colors, but perhaps even more importantly for this post, I have a lot of clothing in these colors!

I started putting together outfits in my head before my new Night King even arrived on my doorstep – and when it did, it was so stunning in-person that I was even more excited to style it up. Ready to see the dildo-inspired ensembles I came up with?

Lounging in bed

When my friend Billy and I interviewed the kink writer Tina Horn on our podcast back in June, she said,

Part of the reason that I know I’m not femme is that I’ve learned so much about what ‘femme’ is to femmes… One of the defining things that I hear over and over again from femmes is that they’re femme when no one’s watching, or their resting state is femme, or they put on lipstick for themselves… You can put on lipstick for yourself, not because you’re brainwashed by the patriarchy!

While there are many valid definitions of femmeness, this one (among others) resonates with me – because not only do I frequently wear lipstick while alone, but I also frequently put together little loungewear ‘outfits’ that serve the sole purpose of making me feel cute while staying comfy. It’s an important outlet for my femme inclinations, especially since – what with being a chronically ill freelancer – I spend way more time in and around my bed than I do in most other places!

This is exactly the type of outfit I’d wear for a leisurely masturbation session on a Saturday afternoon, or even for a toy testing session during the week. Comfort is paramount when I’m hoping to get turned on, and this look takes that into account. (I’ve paired the Night King with a pink We-Vibe Tango X, because I – like most people with my anatomy – find dildos most pleasurable and effective when there’s some clit stimulation going on.)

What I’m wearing:
• Dark red modal slip dress – Calvin Klein Sleepwear
• Pink and red heart-print acrylic cardigan – Unique Vintage
• Bare feet

Party bimbo

Been a minute since I went to a kink conference or play party (’cause, y’know, pandemic + fibromyalgia), but I think this would be the ideal outfit to wear to something like a hypno munch or an intelligence-play workshop. Love a bimbo moment!

The lovecore Night King doesn’t exaaaactly fit inside my tiny heart-shaped purse, but that’s kind of part of the look, if you ask me…

What I’m wearing:
• Pink ribbed cropped tank top – Forever 21
• Pink and red heart-print velour trackpants – an Etsy shop that has since gone out of business
• Neon pink striped beanie – another Etsy shop that has since gone out of business!
• Raspberry pink leather heart earrings – Unicorn Collaborators
• Pink/red/orange custom Nike Air Force 1 sneakers
• Red heart-shaped bag – Kate Spade

Soft butch

One for the androgyny-enjoyers! (I count myself among your ranks…)

It’s been interesting observing the way that fluctuations in my chronic illness symptoms can influence my gender presentation. Sometimes a high-pain day will lead me to dress masc like this, because this type of outfit is more utilitarian and easier to throw together.

Occasionally my pain makes me feel so disconnected from my body that I only want to top, and not bottom, during sex – meaning that I want to do stuff to a partner, but don’t want to receive touch/pleasure directly myself, because keeping my awareness on my own body feels icky and depressing at those times. This is an outfit I might wear at a play party if I was in that type of mood, since it suggests the sex acts I am and am not up for, and gives me some soft-butch swagger that feels good when I’m in Top Mode.

What I’m wearing:
• Long-sleeved black shirt – gift from my mama
• High-waisted straight-leg jeans – Everlane
• Hot pink Doc Martens
• Aslan Leather Nicki Jaguar harness with Uberrime Night King dildo (read my review of this harness here – it’s been my fave for many years!)

Sex writer extraordinaire

Pre-pandemic, I used to write in cafés almost every day. I would tuck my laptop into a tote, throw on an energizing outfit, and then go hole up in the corner of a coffee shop to sip a latte and nibble a muffin while writing about dicks, dates, ‘n’ doms. I miss it! (I still do it once in a while, but definitely not as often.)

This would have been a perfect ensemble to wear while writing a blog post in public – say, a review of my lovecore Night King! I would toss the dildo into my bag before leaving the house, incase I needed to check its measurements or firmness, etc. while writing – surreptitiously and out of view of other patrons, of course!

What I’m wearing:
• “Run the Fuck” T-shirt – the Museum of Sex gift shop (the quote is a Betty Dodson-ism)
• Red pencil skirt – American Apparel
• Pink metallic cowboy boots – Jeffrey Campbell
• Pink leather satchel – Kate Spade (this was the first expensive/fancy bag I ever bought for myself, waaay back when I was like 22, and I still adore it)
• Red heart-shaped prescription glasses – Zenni
• Lovecore Night King + limited-edition “cherry blossom” Lamy Safari rollerball pen (gift from my spouse) + pink legal pad (gift from my brother)

Bonus outfit: Actual sex

I mean, it is a sex toy, after all…!

To tell you the truth, the Uberrime Night King has long been my spouse’s go-to dildo when she fucks me with a strap-on. As mentioned, it hits my A-spot with aplomb. You usually lose up to an inch of useable dildo length when you wear one in a harness, because of the thickness of the harness itself, but the Night King’s 8″ insertable length means it can still easily hit my A-spot even when strapped on. I chose the 12A/medium shore for this Night King, and I’m glad I did, because that firmness makes it feel incredible pounding into my spot again and again. (It helps a lot that my spouse’s strap game is top-notch, of course…)

The most recent time that my partner came to visit me, she had brought her harness, and we decided to try out my new Night King… and once she slid it into her harness and lubed it up, I was so struck by how hot it looked with her outfit that I asked if I could snap a photo for this post. Luckily for me (and for all of you!!), she obliged. And then, naturally, we had excellent strap-on sex 🤤

So, here is a very real-life example of how sex toy aesthetics can amp up excitement and arousal. Red is my spouse’s signature color, and one that looks exceptionally good on her, whether in the form of a lipstick, a mesh tank top, or (yes) a custom-made dildo – and I love that this dildo can easily be incorporated into both of our aesthetics, even though our styles are pretty different from each other!

What she’s wearing:
• Red mesh tank top – a fetishwear shop in Berlin called Schwarzer Reiter
• RodeoH briefs harness
• Uberrime Night King dildo, of course 😍

If this post has got you curious about matching your outfit to your dildo – or matching your dildo to your outfit! – then why not check out the Night King and the rest of Uberrime’s catalog, and pick the color(s) that make(s) your heart sing? Life’s too short for ugly toys in depressing shades; I want my toys to be bright and beautiful works of art, and Uberrime makes some of the prettiest silicone dildos I’ve ever seen. Pretty enough, even, to be a crucial component of some of my high-femme outfits. 💖

 

This post was sponsored by Uberrime, who I really, truly adore. As always, all writing and opinions (and outfits, except for my spouse’s!) are my own.

12 Days of Girly Juice 2019: 1 Fantastic Toy Company

Kate Sloan

I don’t have that many “favorite sex toy companies” anymore. I used to like Lelo, but they’ve fucked up so many times that I feel weird even using their toys anymore, let alone promoting them. I used to adore Tantus, too, but they have also fucked up and haven’t made anything I’ve been excited about in a while anyway. The Eroscillator is my favorite toy ever, but the company itself is sort of cryptic and aloof, and even I acknowledge that their flagship toy is drastically overpriced. There aren’t many companies left in this biz about which I’m willing to wholeheartedly say, “They are good people who make good products and I 100% recommend them.”

With that in mind, however, I gotta say that my 2019 sex toy company of the year is Uberrime. (It’s apparently pronounced “ooh-burr-REE-may,” incase you were wondering.)

When I first ventured into sex toy reviewing, I was struck by the beauty of many toys, especially handmade ones. Artfully sculpted silicone and eye-catching colors made my heart sing. Now, nearly 8 years into this wacky journey, I’m more blasé about toys – but Uberrime’s products activate that long-dormant excitement in me again. There’s something straight-up delightful about a glow-in-the-dark tentacle dildo or a purple dragon dildo with golden balls. Uberrime’s whole aesthetic, IMO, is childlike playfulness meets design ingenuity, and I love it.

Because let’s not forget: these dildos aren’t just beautiful, they also feel great. The adorable Jellyfish dildo is so satisfyingly textured that it made it into my “best sex toys of the year” list. My true love of the Uberrime universe, however, is the Night King, a lengthy, A-spot-stroking behemoth that I still use at least once a week, more than a year after acquiring it. There’s nothing else in my collection quite like it. Its silicone has just enough squish to make it comfortable when it’s pounding hard and deep inside me, but enough firmness and length to satisfy that deeply-buried erogenous zone.

My partner and I like the Night King so much, in fact, that we’ve recently taken to using it during strap-on sex: my beau slips into a RodeoH briefs harness, tugs the Night King through the hole, and suddenly has this magnificent alien dick with which to fuck me. Its extra-long stature and wide base make it truly ideal for strap-on sex. Just a hot tip from me to you!

So what’s next on my Uberrime wishlist? The dual-density Bella is a stunner and would probably work well for pegging. I’m entranced by the Dr. Manhattan, which boasts measurements similar to the Night King’s but without all that intense texture (because, let’s face it, my vag just isn’t always up to the task). My friend Epiphora adores the Splendid, so much that the company even made a limited-edition version in her favorite color. All of these look fantastic and I’m excited to see what Uberrime comes up with next!

What was your favorite sex toy company of the year?

Aaand that’s a wrap on blog posts here for 2019! I’ll be back on January 1st (or thereabouts, depending on… New Year’s hangovers) with my annual Sextistics post. Here’s a brief credits sequence so I can thank the people who helped make Girly Juice dot net run smoothly in 2019:

  • mb, my supportive angel, first reader, and de facto official photographer
  • All the wonderful clients who commissioned sponsored posts and placed ads here this year (wanna become one of them in 2020? you know what to do!)
  • All the companies and makers who sent me cool products to review here
  • My affiliates, especially SheVibe
  • Josh Clarke, assistant extraordinaire 😉
  • The tech support people at Hostgator, Namecheap, and Simplecast
  • My blogger friends (check ’em out in my sidebar)
  • My newsletter subscribers, Patreon supporters, and other people who financially make my work possible
  • …and most crucially, you, my lovely readers!

Happy holidays and have a good 2020, babes! 💋